Midsummer Night's Magic in Manhattan


Summer in the city, how do I loathe thee?  Let me count the ways:  The fetid, funky stench of days-old, sun-roasted garbage wafting down the avenues.  The oppressive, relentless, inescapable heat that turns on a tap of sweat, melting make up in one block, soaking through shirts in two … New Yorkers’ already short tempers, further truncated by 90+ degree temperatures that feel more like triple digits, flaring at the most minor of infractions … the urine-infused, sauna-eque subway platforms … sharing the sidewalk with frolicking rats and roaches … the cute but clueless polyglot tourists around each and every bend, blocking the way as they marvel at the sights that no longer move us, that we barely still notice…

Calgon, take me away! 

Every summer I experience the same impulse:  to get the hell out of Dodge.  Immediately.  Permanently.  Forever.  And never, ever, ever come back.  Leave for points north, west, east, or better yet, way east, across the Atlantic east.  I just can’t take it.  I must have a significantly lower tolerance for summer's assault on the senses.  Unlike those folks who revel in the hot urban sunshine, I suffer.  I swoon, swelter, sweat.  My face looks perpetually flushed, mottled, shiny. The city starts to feel like a prison, an existential "No Exit"-y hell on earth, only hotter.  So it’s very easy and natural for me to whinge and whine about all there is to hate, focus on the negatives, which are many and salient.  To wit:  It stinks.  It’s hot.  (Yes, Virginia, it is the heat.  And the humidity.)  It’s kind of empty, as all the cool people have left for cool places like the Hamptons, the mountains, Martha’s Vineyard, Woodstock, Block Island …

Most years, I have had the good fortune to escape for several weeks in June or July on a shoot in a wonderfully non-NYC location such as Europe or Alaska.  Several weeks away from the day-to-day urban grind, depaisement totale.  Which takes the edge off returning to weeks of summer in the city, just a bit.  However, this year I was not so lucky.  The scheduled two-week shoot sailing around Scandinavia – cancelled.  No prep, buffer, no great stories, no amazing memories, no late start to the summer season.  Brutal. I’m miserable, I’m uncomfortable, I’m annoyed -

Pause, reboot.

At this point in my rant, I begin to feel a little guilty.  Oh, me and my 1st world problems.  Really, how dare I complain about living in one of the world’s premier cities?  Crucible of culture, vortex of opportunity, center of nightlife?  Haven for artists, entrepreneurs, misfits, travelers?  In summer, New York lets its hair down, becomes more of its authentic self.  It gets funky; it strips off its designer duds and gets down.  It opens up its creative heart and soul and spills it onto the streets, onto the sidewalks, onto outdoor stages, onto its piers, onto whatever intermittent patches of green it finds.  You may stumble upon a classical quartet playing at lunchtime near Fairway Market on West 125th Street, or spread out a blanket with tens of thousands listening to the Philharmonic in Prospect Park.  Wait on line for hours for free Shakespeare in the Park tickets in Central Park, or step right up to a Shakespeare in the Parking Lot performance in Washington Square … But rather than extoll the cultural virtues of the New York summer, with the endless array of just about every type of music, dance, art, theatre, activities, movies, sports, attractions, etc. happening in the parks, along the rivers, at the beaches – even in graveyards – I invite you to check out Time Out or New York or websites such as nycgo.com to find out what’s going on where during any given week, much of it free, free, free. 

I'll never forget the first time I witnessed an Alvin Ailey performance at SummerStage, listened to La Boheme under the star (yes, only one) on the Great Lawn, or danced salsa at sunset on Pier 1.  But that’s not what I’d like to talk about. Because it’s not just the impressive, soup-to-nuts array of summer offerings, many our highest forms of artistic expression, that really set this place apart.  It’s We The People.

Yes, We The People.  Because even as I suffer through the heat and the smells, summer in this city renews my faith in humankind.  You only have to experience one or several of these outdoor events to see what I mean.  The camaraderie, the exuberance, the pride, the shared joy.  The coming together of disparate groups, sharing a moment, reveling in our ability to experience wonder, to create art, to appreciate beauty, to transcend the quotidian, to reach and enjoy a higher plane of existence.

A truly remarkable thing happened one night at this year’s Midsummer Night’s Swing.  Not only because we allowed ourselves to lose ourselves and become dancing fools on Loser's Lounge Disco Diva Night. My friends and I made this same observation as we looked out over the throngs singing and swaying along with the music.  In the crowd, every possible iteration of humanity was represented:  Infants to octogenarians.  Every skin tone and race under the setting sun.  All socio-economic levels, Park Avenue as well as the ‘hood; uptown, downtown and midtown. Straight people, gay men in high heel pumps, lesbian couples. You name it.  Everyone was laughing.  (Okay, my friend John, a die-hard Donna Summer fan, was a bit disappointed with the live orchestra’s covers of his heroine’s music. But he got over it.  Mostly.)  Everyone was dancing, together.  Everyone was sweating and didn’t seem to mind.  (Except me.  I minded a little.  But I got over it.  Mostly.) Complete strangers reached out beyond their demographic cliques, made contact through a smile and invitations to dance. Latinos did the Hustle with Asians, busboys boogied with bankers, grandpas dipped babies, corporate execs got their groove on with the Harlem line dancers, anyone jumped in to join the Conga.  Really.  Everyone danced with everyone.  The seasoned generously, patiently taught even reluctant beginners how it's done.  Barriers fell away like the setting sun, differences transcended, if only for an evening. It was beautiful to behold.

My first thought:  only in New York.  Only here would you find a representative sampling of all of humanity sharing a moment, dancing with abandon to the same rhythm, moving in unison. We’re different here, I mused, we get it.  We ain’t Florida and its fear- and hate-inspired “stand your ground” mentality, or Arizona hating on immigrants, or Texas eroding women’s rights.  But then I realized, wait - if we can make this happen here, why can’t we make it happen anywhere?  Everywhere? 

Why can’t we, indeed.

As moved as I was watching the mighty Alvin Ailey dancers that steamy night at SummerStage (a religious experience; I almost didn't mind that I was as sweat-soaked as the dancers), the view of the audience - an international rainbow of faces, all beaming in awe, admiration and appreciation - moved me nearly as much.  Moments like this, and at Midsummer Night’s Swing, salsa Thursdays at the Triangle on West 14th Street, movie night in Bryant Park, and so many other local events where all the world comes together to lose itself and find each other, renew my faith in the beauty, the magic, the wonder, the possibilities.  Our infinite potential for unity and joy and excellence.  True transcendence.

I am so thankful for the what, these wonderful opportunities afforded us to experience and share.  To dance!  And even more impressed with the who:  our ability to use these as a catalyst for community, acceptance and transcendence.  This month, in the middle of this oppressive heat wave, Jupiter aligns with Mars.  So the universe will support us to do great things. Despite the summer heat, or perhaps because of it, now is the perfect time to find each other, to express our best sweat-soaked self to each other and the world.  It’s all us, all the time.  Only We The People can make it happen.

Now please excuse me as I take my 3rd shower of the day …

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